Someone on a dating app quickly wanted private messaging, then asked for help with an urgent money problem. I did not send funds, but I feel shaken.
What helped others pause, preserve general evidence, and avoid further contact?
When the conversation suddenly moved off the dating app
Content warning
Relationship fraud and emotional pressure.
3 thoughtful replies
I blocked and reported in the official app, then saved profile screenshots offline. Talking to a trusted person offline helped.
If anyone offers private recovery coaching for money, treat that as a red flag and use Report.
Anniversary of a similar situation for me. You did the right thing by not sending money. Peer support can stay public and moderated.