A relative is in deep with someone they have not met who asks for money. Looking for non-shaming approaches families used — not legal advice.
Supporting an elder relative in a romance scam
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Family intervention and elder fraud.
3 thoughtful replies
I led with concern for their safety, not “you’re being scammed.” Asked them to pause payments while we review together.
Official elder fraud resources exist in many regions — Resources may help you find pathways. Avoid vigilante contact with the scammer.
Patience takes longer than lectures. Document money movement privately if they allow you to help with official reports later.